Love Stories

Many of those in need served by church volunteers through Church Care are people without families who are now old and helpless or have severe health problems. They can’t work anymore and often their only income is what they receive from social security, SSI ADC, TANF, food stamps - minimal incomes. They can make it if they are not hit with any extra unexpected expenses. They can no longer keep their houses and yards in repair as they once did. They haven’t the money to hire it done. Medical problems take increasing amounts of their meager funds - transportation needs take more.

Everyday the problems grow worse, the costs increase, and as their resources vanish day by day, so does their hope. It is important to realize that these are stories about the poor, the lonely, the disabled who have nowhere to turn. Their needs are beyond what agency resources can provide. If they don’t get care from the churches, they will not get care - their needs won’t wait for Thanksgiving and Christmas. The Church Care Clearing House exists only to help the local Church bridge the gap between willing Christian hands and hopeless people that need their care. Can the church help them?

Christian charity - the money kind - will always attract those looking for easy money - and they find it. The cheating that goes on is rampant. However, there are many truthful and legitimate situations that deserve Christian consideration. How does the church know without a thorough screening of the stories that are told? Here are a few examples of genuine requests that we heard, checked out, and to which churches responded. (full names have been withheld to respect confidentiality)

Requests for Hands-On Help

John
A family friend had heard about our services through the Help Line. He referred John to Help Line, and Help Line referred him the clearing house for screening. John, a widower, is in his 80's and has been diagnosed to be suffering with Frontal Lobe Dementia. John's daughter Jane is his caregiver, and she cannot leave him alone. Her husband has suffered a heart attack and is not able to help with him. Jane has had to find a job to make ends meet. She takes her father to adult day care for a half day several days a week. That's all they can afford. The rest of the time she has a neighbor friend who goes in often just to check up on him. John's behavior at this point is bizarre and deteriorating and so are the attendant problems regarding his care. Their yard has gone to seed and brush. While the neighbors have not yet reported them to the Health Department, it is only a matter of time that it will happen and they will be issued a citation. Jane cannot do this herself nor can she afford to hire it done - there is no money. Although the house could stand some fixing up, just the concerns of the health department will be our concern for now - mow the grass, cut the brush, clean up the yard and haul off the brush and trash. We referred this situation to Grace Community Church in Carmel. Their volunteers came downtown to take care of a serious problem that will not go away and can only grow worse by the day. Volunteers from St. Monica Catholic Church took care of hauling the brush and trash to the dump. There are a few things remaining to be done, but they can wait till spring and their volunteers have graciously invited us to contact them again at that time.

Young Man from Africa
A young man from Africa had 3 years earlier been abandoned by his wife who returned to Africa, leaving him with 4 children to raise by himself. More recently, he had lost his job which, as often happens, led to the loss of his apartment and a month or so stay in one of our city's local emergency shelters. At the time we were called in to help, the staff at the shelter had helped this man find a new job and had placed him and the children in an apartment. That was great, but all their belongings were in storage - placed there when they entered the shelter. There was nothing in the apartment - they were all sleeping on the floor. Could we please find volunteers to handle this situation? We referred this family to the Southport Presbyterian Church. They supplied the truck and the manpower and moved all the belongings in. They learned then that the family's van had just quit running. When they went to a nearby service station to have a look, the neighbors told them some kids had tried to drive it off and couldn't, so they left it in the street and the police had towed it away. The church and/or volunteers paid the police tow charge and another to have it towed back to a nearby station, and the church then paid the repair bill to get it up and running. With barely enough income to pay the rent and other necessities, how long would it have been before this family might function in any normal fashion? This family was truly touched by the love and kindness of Jesus and their hope restored by the actions of these men reaching out to be Christ to a stranger.

Marge
Marge is 68, retired and lives alone in the house she has lived in since 1962. She is a severe diabetic which requires frequent treatment. She lives on a limited income - a small pension and Social Security total $988 per month. Her regular monthly expenses were nearly $700 - okay, but praying all the time that nothing out of the ordinary would arise. They always did - every month. Marge was referred for screening and referral by the Health Department. They had issued her a citation with a time limit to comply after which they would have to hire the job done and bill her for it. Marge was in no way able to comply, nor would she be able to pay the bill if the work was done. The Health Department knew this, but they have no choice in matters such as this. A huge thicket of brush had grown up along the back and one side of her property which was a perfect place for trash to be dumped. Trash attracts rats and other vermin, which in turn attract the attention of neighbors, and eventually the Health Department. The neighbors had repeatedly complained of the health problems present in this situation. We referred this to Grace Fellowship Church in Greenwood. Two adults and 20 high school kids came to the inner city in the morning and worked five hours to clear out the brush and the garbage that had been dumped there. They stacked up a pile of brush 12 feet high, 10 feet wide and 30 feet long and pulled out 30 or 40 bags of trash. Three volunteers, 2 from St. Monica Catholic Church and 1 from Post Road Christian Church came in with a truck and a trailer at 5:00 p.m. that evening to haul it away. The kids came back to help and worked another 2 hours, cutting and loading the truck and trailer. While they were there, they also fixed a couple of down spouts, did a little painting and put some new numbers on Marge's house. Here is a beautiful example of the Church serving "the least of these" - serving Christ Himself. The neighbors observed, and Christ was made visible to them right there on their street.

Ruth
This situation was referred to us by the Marion County Division of Family and Children. Ruth is a 55 year old woman with heart problems and who is also diabetic. Her income totals $613/mo. (SSI and Food Stamps). Her regular monthly expenses are $550. It is an old trailer that she owns and pays $155 lot rent. The floor in Ruth's kitchen has holes through it into the crawl space. Volunteers are going to have to replace the floor in order to remove the possibility of serious injury. Volunteers in the office checked out the details and found all to be true. Ruth does have some family here, but they are poorer than she is and don't have the skills to do this job. There were no agency resources to refer. If we did not locate volunteers able and willing to do this, it would not be done. We referred this situation to Post Road Christian Church. A week or so later they called to report the work was finished. The church, in this case, had supplied the labor and the cost of materials as well. Some Christian men called her one day and told her, "We want to come and put a new floor in your kitchen". Ruth has a brand new kitchen floor - something she never dreamed would happen. Some strangers came to her house one day and touched her with the love of Christ and were themselves touched by His love.

Doris
Doris was referred by the Health Net Center. Doris is 67, widowed, retired and trying to raise two children - one an adopted grandson and the other a foster child. She has a small pension and the rest of her income is Social Security. Her expenses equal her income. Doris has cancer, in remission at this time, but the treatment has damaged tissue and muscle, and she is not able to walk without support. She needs a railing on her front porch steps to enable her to come and go without the help of neighbors. Can you please help her? We say only that we can try. We can't promise anything, because everything depends upon volunteers. We referred this need to Christ's Church Lawrence. They happened to have a parishioner who was an expert in wrought iron work. He, with the help of a couple others from the church, fashioned a beautiful wrought iron railing that meets her utility needs and satisfies her aesthetics senses as well. She's more than pleased with what has been done for her - very thankful and generous with her praise. For the want of a railing, Doris was prisoner in her house for a long time. What might be the value of the freedom these Christians have given her? This is a simple thing on the surface - just a railing - but, below the surface, freedom, a life giving matter.

Johnnie May
Johnnie May is single, age 66, lives alone and is disabled. She suffers with arthritis, such that she can't walk without a walker. She suffers respiratory disease as well. Johnnie May moved from an apartment on the westside because she was always afraid - several attempts had been made to break her door locks to get into her place. She told us that the help she was able to get to move her to her present address just moved everything in and left - that's all they agreed to do. She is unable to unpack boxes and get her place in order. We inquired about her home church, but she said her pastor is ailing and the church is not even in service anymore. Johnnie May is in need of a crew - women it would seem - to come into her house and set it in order, just empty all the boxes and put stuff in their right place. The situation was screened for truth - no family, no money, no agency to help. A full written request/report was e-mailed to a network church and accepted... but before the call for help went out to church volunteers, Johnnie May called again. She had won the opportunity to move into a Section 8 apartment for $154 per month including gas and electric. She couldn't afford not to take it, even though she's only been in her current apartment for 2 months. It's a complicated situation, because she lives on only $680 per month, and she doesn't have all she needs to get all this done. We asked the church to strike the first request and sent them a new request/report. They provided a volunteer to spend a good part of a day help to Johnnie May take care of some things that had to be done before they could move her. The volunteer drove Johnnie first to a store to get money orders, then to her landlady of the present place to pay her rent there and to deliver a letter of intent to move out of her apartment. Then she was driven to her new landlady to deliver the deposit needed to hold that apartment. We called both companies, explained the situation, and they agreed to give Johnnie May extra time to pay those bills. The church, Post Road Christian, moved a very grateful Johnnie May into a permanent address where she can make it on her $680 SSI check.

Requests for Money

Jennie
Jennie is 35 and on total disability. Her education stopped in the 8th grade. She suffers acute diabetes and has cancer of the uterus - surgery is waiting until she gets resettled. She and her two sons were living with her boyfriend in an abusive relationship. When she finally told him she and her kids were moving into an apartment of their own, he beat her badly. The police were called, and they advised her that there was no way they could guarantee he would stay away. They talked her into going into a shelter and delivered her and the boys to that shelter. From there she worked diligently to find a place to live and finally found a place that would take her without a credit reference. She began calling churches from the yellow pages asking help for the first month's rent, $445 plus $200 deposit. A Carmel church in the network took her call and referred her to us for screening. The folks at Holy Family Shelter told us she had already made contact with another church in Indianapolis. She had told her story and they had pledged $100 towards the rent if she could verify she had the rest. Holy Family Shelter pledged $200 to cover the deposit. Jennie had $120 saved from her last entitlement checks. The remainder needed to move into this apartment was then $220. Gas and electric is included in her rent. The Carmel church pledged the $220. We asked the landlord to let Jennie move in without prepaying the rent and deposit. He agreed and Jennie and her boys moved into the apartment the day before Thanksgiving. We arranged with another church in the network to deliver Jennie and her boys their Thanksgiving Day dinner. These are the kinds of responses that make Christ visible. Just days before Jennie called in desperation - a few days later, 3 churches show her a mercy she had no reason to expect. Sometimes it will be miracles (it is to her) like this that open the heart just a crack that the light of Jesus might finally shine in. Let's pray that this is her time. All this is a bonus for us, because the way this worked out, the Indianapolis church that had pledged the $100 was not then in the network. Today they are. God is Good!

Jack
Jack is age 63, divorced for 15 years, and very ill. He was referred by Mid-Town Health after his doctors ordered a move from the building he is in for health reasons. Jack has skin cancer. He has heart problems and lung problems - he's on oxygen. He is on the 4th floor where he is, and he cannot get his wheelchair through the inside doors. He is moving to an apartment that better accommodates his health problems. Jack's rent is paid up to the 20th where he is now, and he has paid the rent at the new address beginning on the 21st. That does not give us the time we need to find volunteer moving help through the churches. He did make numerous calls to moving companies for cost quotes to move him. The lowest quote he received was $300. Jack is on disability and his total monthly income is $621. He doesn't have $300. Notice is too short (20th) to assure our success in a request effort to obtain the $300 from the churches. We called the moving company, explained the situation, and he agreed to work with us. He will move Jack before the 20th, and he will expect payment of his $300 charge by the end of the month. We do not have the $300. Everything Jack told us was checked out and found true. We e-mailed this situation to three churches - all contact information, a full narrative, maps, where he is now and where he is to move. We asked each of the churches for $100 and provided the moving company's address and other contact information. All three churches responded.

Johna
Johna is divorced, has two sons, and only a junior high education - but she works for her living. She is asking the church for $450 rent. She had been doing very well until just recently. She works at her current job for over two years. She was taken to the hospital with acute appendicitis one day before her insurance eligibility. The hospital bill is $9700. Shortly thereafter she was stopped for DWI - swears she's not a drinker. She just got overwhelmed with the huge debt thing hanging over her head, had too much to drink, and was jailed. That added to her woes - $300 to get out of jail, $100 to get her car back, and $250 for a lawyer. It took all she had. She was broke and had no one to turn to - no family to help - no church. We told her $450 was too much to ask from one church and told her to call churches and ask for small amounts. We questioned her a few days later regarding her progress. We had advised her to work out a payment arrangement with the hospital - one that she thought she could handle and call us back. She did that and she worked hard to raise money towards her rent. She was still short $150. Her landlord verified a good tenant/landlord relationship since she moved in there. We let her know we would try to find the $150 for her because she is doing all she could to help herself. She is not on welfare except food stamps, and she did what she was supposed to do to make sure her husband pays child support. We e-mailed a full report to the referring church indicating Johna had been truthful and that this one time help would keep her off the welfare roles and out of the shelter. The amount she originally asked of the church was $450 - she worked it down to just $150. Johna reported her situation truthfully and her willingness to take instruction and follow through with hard work on her own part was key - the referring church responded. This one gift of $150 from the church put her back on track.

Greg
Greg is a carpenter and out of work. He moved with his wife and three kids to Indianapolis from Northern Indiana hoping to find to work. He had been several weeks in the home of a friend here, but has to move now. To pay his way he had hocked $2,000 worth of tools, and he is days away from losing them. He needed $392 to redeem them. We advised him to seek help from the trustee in his area. He already had and was refused - no job, no job prospects, no address. For these same reasons, plus no time to check the out of town information, we could not refer them into the church network. We advised him to move his family into a shelter and provided the contact information. He would have 30 days subsistence, professional help, no expenses, time and a base to work hard and steady at finding work. A few days later he called from the shelter. He had found a job with a local contractor. True - we checked it out - but his start date was 2 weeks away. The deadline for redeeming his tools was tomorrow. "Can you find someone to help us? I've got a job and no tools." No, too late to arrange with churches, but what we might be able to do is buy him a 30 day time extension on his two pawn tickets. We explained the situation to the two pawn shops-they agreed to wait a couple of days. The clearing house has no funds, but we paid for the extensions and asked a couple of network churches to reimburse us for the outlay. Greg, now with a job and no expenses for three weeks, was able to borrow from his friend the money to redeem his tools. Now he had to find a place to live. He has a job, he had his tools and an address (shelter addresses count). We sent him back to the Trustees office.

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